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after looking on google for something far from realted, i found a pro ana site, i wondered what it was, so i had a click and relised that there is sights for eating disorders, why?, it looks like most of the people that are on it are all woman/ girls. yeh you can understand why they do it, but then i click to pictures, i dont think i have seen anything like it in my life, how thin can a person actully get? i dont think people look that ' pretty ' in my own opinion when there thin, normal is ok but thin just isnt pretty. these people have pictures of people where they look like they havnt been fed in about a month, they proberly havnt come to think of it, then they swap tips on how to fool there familys into thinking there eating! ... what?!. there is full communites of people swapping tips and ' thinspiration' pictures where they find the thinest person and admire them and set them as a possible target to achive.
i think you can partly blame society for the way things like that are, the way people are pressured to be ' perfect sized ' men pressure woman alot by what they want and look at to be sexy to them, which woman want to be, but this is something totally mad! they have a set diet, fasting and what pills to take and not to take, there all in a full swing of starving themselves to death. i carnt really 100% say i dont understand what there on about, where for my self i do and fully admit i have a bit of a problem with food, but i have my own reasons, and i dont have a website telling people how to eat or why to eat like that, there is even a part where its telling people to hate themselves :

I am beginning to bind myself into you. Pretty soon, I am with you always. I am there when you wake up in the morning and run to the scale. The numbers become both friend and enemy, and the frenzied thoughts pray for them to be lower than yesterday, last night, etc. You look into the mirror with dismay. You prod and poke at the fat that is there, and smile when you come across bone.

seriously WHAT THE FUCK. there isnt just 1, there is millions upon millions of sites all saying the same thing by the looks of it.why do they have things like that?!?!?!?!
this world is a scary place i tell thee. a womans world of how we look is a total dog eat dog world, men arnt so bad, infact i dont think they have half the problem that woman do. the way to be for most men is to be, thin, not fat, and pretty. if you have that no matter what your personality is like, your in there and you can have ANY man you want, its a known fact.
this has to be a start off point to why some people are on these mad and weird websites, and the demand in the celeb pressure.

there is a demand in most things for woman is quite big, woman want to be thin, have biggish boobs be pretty and have the legs and body that is in high demand, for this its not for themselves its for other people, giving them the self confidence in return. people pay thousands of pounds for face lifts, breast implants and looooads more. i dont think it should really happen. iv bin up and down in the way i am, and to be really honest, i am happy being fatter than thinner, but its my personal prefrence, i feel more comfortable in myself, but only i think if you have been up and down in the scale that i think you understand.